Reflect & Repair: The Complete Restorative Behaviour Toolkit for Middle & High
Create real accountability and lasting behaviour change
The Reflect & Repair Toolkit is a complete restorative behaviour framework that guides students through regulation, honest reflection, meaningful repair, and clear follow-through, without relying on outdated punitive classroom management. All the support, accountability, and student buy-in, without the shame.
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No more guessing what comes next after a behaviour moment. Reflect & Repair is built around a clear four-step restorative pathway that helps you respond with purpose, structure, and confidence:
REGULATE → REFLECT →REPAIR → RECORD
Inside The Reflect and Repair Toolkit, you’ll find practical tools that help students:
👉regulate before reflection begins
👉explore the emotions behind behaviour and understand their behaviours on a more meaningful level
👉take ownership without shame
👉repair relationships and rebuild trust
👉make real progress by giving them the skills needed to grow
Whether you are implementing restorative practices, trauma-informed approaches, or simply want more structure around behaviour conversations, this toolkit gives you a clear system to follow.
In this bundle, you will find:
😤The REGULATE Toolkit
Supports students to settle and re-engage before deeper reflection.
• Are You Okay Cards
• I Will Start By Cards
• Traffic Lights Cards
• Calm Strategy Choice Cards
• How Are You Feeling Visual
• What’s My Temperature Visual
🧠The REFLECT Toolkit
Guided reflection tools that help students unpack behaviour safely and honestly.
• Telling My Story (Prompted Version)
• Telling My Story (Open Version)
• Behaviour Think Sheet: Stop, Think, Plan
• Finding the Feelings in My Behaviour
• Finding the Feelings
• What I Can Control
• My Iceberg Behaviour Reflection
• What’s Really Going On?
• Strategy Map: Getting On Track
• Our Game Plan (When Things Get Tricky)
• Behaviour RESET
• Reflect, Repair & Rejoin
🔩The REPAIR Toolkit
Restorative supports that move students from reflection into action.
• Resolve It Lanyard Conversation Prompts
• Reflect & Repair Quick Slip
• Fix It Slip
• Prepare for Repair (V1 & V2)
• Repair Note Whole Page Scaffold
• Repair Note Simple Slip
✍️ The RECORD Toolkit
Tools to track progress and strengthen communication beyond the moment.
• End of Week Reflection
• Parent Conversation Templates
One of the most powerful parts of The Reflect & Repair Toolkit is the Digital Classroom Management Hub, a Google Sheets based system designed to help you access tools quickly, organise behaviour support, and document progress without drowning in paperwork.
Instead of juggling sticky notes, scattered think sheets, or trying to remember what happened three weeks ago, the Hub gives you a clear, streamlined way to manage behaviour support in real time.
The Reflect and Repair Toolkit was designed with care and intention for:
👉 Upper Primary, Middle school and High School classrooms
👉 Teachers who are deeply caring and empathetic, and are searching for a behaviour management support system that honours and respects the whole child.
👉 Schools that are trauma-informed and restorative but are looking for something tangible, real world and engaging to bring those values to life when behaviours occur.
👉 Teachers who are tired of carrying behaviour support on a million different sticky notes, and instead are looking for a system and a place to access tools, track progress, and support students in a way that feels structured, sustainable, and genuinely doable.
How The Reflect and Repair Toolkit works in real classrooms with real students:
This bundle is not about forcing apologies or handing out more worksheets. Instead, it gives you flexible tools you can use during behaviour moments, restorative conversations, or follow-up support.
👉 Use a regulation visual to help a student settle.
👉 Move into an engaging guided reflection when they’re ready.
👉 Support meaningful repair when accountability emerges.
👉 Record progress so growth doesn’t get lost.
When behaviour happens, you shouldn’t have to guess your next move. With Reflect & Repair, you’ll have a complete framework that supports regulation, reflection, repair, and real progress, all in one cohesive system.
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